Monday, August 15, 2011

POLL: What should i do?

Don't rush it, if your 18 and she is 16 you won't be ready to have a house to move in to, you would probably end up living in your one of your parents house. Wait at least until she is about 19 even 20 because if you have children at 16 even 17 she will break under the pressure because having a child is hard. I can tell you from experience my mom had my older brother when she was 20 and even then she would hit my brother (not as bad as it sounds). If you wait until you have a successfully job and a stable life her dad and uncle will accept the marriage easier and support you two. But never break off the relationship with her parents because one day you will need family more than anyone else because being alone is worse than waiting one or two years. Before you propose make sure you have your parents and her dads approval so that they can support your marriage and try and help you with your baby and anything else. If she gets married now she will grow up too fast and will not be able to handle it, going from high school to getting married is too big of a transition. Ask her if she has plans like going to college or moving somewhere because if you truly love her you will make sure that she does everything she wants to do before you guys get married because after that you can do everything you want, you have to work and work and you will miss your girlfriend boyfriend relationship.

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